You know when you hear that self harmers are "Emo" or "attention seeking"? Well that's not necessarily true. It's not a joke. It takes a lot to get to the point of turning the pain in your mind into physical pain. When you stand there, laughing at them and taking the piss out of them, you're just making them feel more ashamed, making them pull down their sleeves and put on trousers instead of shorts. You're pushing them deeper and deeper into a hole and if you don't watch out, that hole will become their grave...